take it or leave it.

I've grown.  I really have.  Not in the literal sense (although sometimes it'd be nice to be a little taller)... but I've grown.

I moved back into my mom's house on Jan. 15th and my divorce was finalized on March 4th.  That's a lot of big stuff that's happened this year.

I used to be dependent on others to make me happy.  I never took care of myself physically - never got ready in the morning, hardly ever wore makeup, didn't think about what I was eating. and rarely got dressed up.  I rarely took the initiative.  All that's about to change!

So this is what I've learned about myself so far in my quest of self-rediscovery:

-I don't have to be with someone (friend or significant other) to be happy with my life.  Happiness comes from within.

-It's a MUST to take the time to smell the roses.  You'll appreciate life so much more if you do!

-Take the time to put a little mascara on... it makes a world of difference in your self-confidence if you feel like you look good!

-Don't be afraid to "splurge" (splurge responsibly please) on a new shirt or pair of pants occasionally.

-Don't be afraid to put yourself out there.

-And don't be afraid to get shot down.  If they don't like it... they're not worth your time.

-Don't be afraid to try new things!  You'll be surprised at what you discover!

-Alone time is a must!!  Even if you have a significant other!!

 -It's totally ok to have a lazy day/weekend/week.

-It's ok for things to be out of place.  For us OCD people.. this was a toughie!!

-It's ok to let loose and not always be in control!  In fact, it's sorta nice to not worry about everything!!

-A life without worry... is a happier life.  :)

Taking the time to rediscover yourself is totally worth it!!

((and I'm not even done!!))